Thursday, December 24, 2009

A Very Merry Christmas To All!

First off, I want to take this time to wish everyone a very Merry Christmas from our family to yours. This holiday season we have really taken time to recognize and appreciate our very many blessings. Now more than ever we are holding our friends and family very close to us.

This week was a very momentous one because my mom officially began her first round of cancer treatments. She started chemotherapy and radiation therapy yesterday at the St. Joseph's Cancer Care Center. She starts everyday with a light breakfast and a small cocktail of medications to help ease her through the treatments. Her doctors prescribed a wonderful new antinausea medication that she is on 24/7 to preventively treat nausea, but also has 2 other medications on hand at home for if any breakthrough nausea does occur. She is also on a broad spectrum antibiotic to ward off any bugs she could pick up while her immune system is down from the chemo. I have fully stocked the house with antibacterial wipes, sprays and hand sanitizer everywhere :) For the next 29 days (of a 30 day treatment plan) she will take her chemotherapy pill (Temodar) at home. Following this first round of chemo, we are told she will be on a 5 day dose every couple weeks.

Today I was able to go with her to her radiation appointment and see first hand the amazing care she is getting. Her radiation tech Aaron was very friendly and took my dad and I back to see the TomoTherapy machine and be with my mom while she got ready for treatment. Once they put on her special radiation mask they moved her into the machine and did a couple minutes to scans to make sure the machine was correctly lined to allow the radiation to hit the most specific target on her head. During the actual radiation they showed us on the computer screen the MRI scans of my mom's brain taken today and the areas and levels of dosing for radiation that the doctors had ordered. The actual radiation treatment took only 4 minutes!

The whole process is very noninvasive and was over before I knew it. I did find myself getting a little emotional when it came time to see the mask put on her and see her go into the big machine. But like I have so many other times in my life, I drew strength from my mom. Today and everyday from now I want to be strong for her when she needs reassurance. She felt great afterward and even felt up to a little last minute grocery shopping. We are told that because she so recently started her treatment, she may not be experiencing any side effects until the next couple days.

We are looking forward to having a nice quiet holiday at home with our closest family. We can't tell you how much it means to my mom and our entire family that so many wonderful people have have reached out to us. It really goes to show that the best gift is to let someone know that you love and cherish them and communicate that to them, every chance you get. Merry Christmas and may God bless your family this holiday season as much as He has blessed ours.

14 comments:

  1. Merry Christmas to your family too! We love you and pray for you everyday, and look forward to many more positive posts along this journey. God bless you!

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  2. Merry Christmas! I think of you and your family everyday. You are all so positive and strong. We all look forward to many positive posts in the future. Thank you for keeping us posted.

    Melinda Nelson
    Alderwood

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  3. Dear Tricia and all,
    David, Kelsey and I are sending many loving thoughts your way. It's great that you are able to get your treatments right there in B'ham where you are surrounded by so much love and support. We will keep in contact through Tanis' wonderful work on the blog, and through the playgroup grapevine.
    Love, Jodi

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  4. We love all of you. Always in our prayers.
    Love Mary & Jim

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  5. Thinking and praying for you every day. I picture Tricia's beautiful smile as I pray. Love to all of you!
    Nancy and Craig Moore and all the playgroup

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  6. Wishing the Smith family a happy and healthy New Year, with healing and joy ahead!
    Love,
    The Winters'

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  7. Sending all of you much love! I'm glad my mom let me know about your blog, what a great way to let healing messages pour in from every corner of the world! You're all in my thoughts. Love, Briar

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  8. Dear, Dear Tricia ~
    Please feel embraced & strengthened by the LOVE and support of God and your many many friends who cherish you. Pete just had open-heart surgery to repair a leaky valve -- throughout this trauma we truly felt buoyed up by Love -- it means so very much to know we're never alone. Each moment, know that you are cherished and supported --
    LOVE to you all ~
    Debbie Granger

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  9. Tanis, Thank you again for the updates. And what wonderful updates they are~! It's almost like your holding our hands and we are holding hers. You are all in our thoughts and prayers every day. I only have positive thoughts and believe that 2010 will become a great year for ALL of you.
    Merry Christmas and Happy New year!
    Heidi, Brad & Hailey

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  10. Happy New Year. May this be a most happy new year for your family with a full recovery. You are all in our thoughts at Alderwood. Thank you for a look at your journey.

    ~Melinda

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  11. Thinking of you, Trish, every day, as you walk this courageous walk. Our candle burns for you!
    Don't feel bad about complaining via Tanis's incredible blog if you're not feeling well, or anything at all! Please ask, ask, ask, for anything! We welcome the truth of your experience and support you just the way things are, and just the way you feel.
    Love you,
    Laurie

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  12. Tanis, please give your mom a hug from me and let her know I am praying that she continues with her positive attitude as she fights for her health. Trisha, you are the most positive person I know and I can hear you bubble when you talk about the girls or life challenges. Seems like yesterday we were having our first babies... and then the second ones. Wow!
    Love
    Diane Bates

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  13. Hi Smith's just wanted you to know that you are in our prayers. Hang in there and wishing you the best!
    The Curry's

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  14. jeff and pam hansonJanuary 8, 2010 at 7:51 PM

    Jim, Tricia, and girls...

    You are in our thoughts and prayers everyday..
    I was so happy to find out from Renee that we could keep up with you via this blog. Keep your faith... sincerely, Jeff & Pam Hanson

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